Cybersex. No strings attached and no awkward mornings. It is something that you should try, really. Also, we cannot stress this enough… it is safe (and it doesn’t get any safer than this) and satisfying. You’d be surprised at how satisfying cybersex is.
But of course, there are drawbacks. Heck, this is not a perfect world. But we are going to show you the reasons why you should try it! And yes, you will enjoy it. Not a hundred percent though as, again, there are drawbacks. But more to that later.
1. Cybersex Image
One of the greatest gifts the internet has given to our internet-obsessed generation is the gift of open internet sex, also known as cybersex. When done correctly and safely, cybersex can be a lot of fun as well as empowering for many people. Before you judge, here are eight reasons why you should try cybersex!
2. Anonymity
Anonymity: You can have a sexual relationship with another person online while remaining anonymous. You have complete control over how much information you reveal about yourself. You could also create an entirely new online persona and live out some of your fantasies. This leads us to the next point.
3. Make Good Use of Your Imagination
No holds barred: You could let go of your inhibitions and live out your most heinous sexual fantasies without fear of being judged. In your fantasies, you could be anything you want: a pilot, a teacher, a dominatrix, or even Santa Claus. Oh, yeah!
4. Creativity Vent
In a cybersex chat room, you may be surprised by your own literary abilities. Nothing beats the anonymity of the internet for unleashing your inner perverse Shakespeare. The internet can sometimes bring out the best in you, providing you with the creative outlet you’ve been looking for.
5. Safety is a Priority, No Really!
Consider not having to ruin an exciting moment by frantically looking for the condom packet or awkwardly putting it on. Unlike real sex, there is no risk of STDs or pregnancy. Even your most virulent cyber persona will not be able to impregnate a woman online.
6. No Judgement
No body image issues: You might be concerned about your pudgy nose, small penis, or flat bosom in real life. Unless you use a webcam, you could have the most Adonis-like body, a 10-inch penis, and sexual stamina to rival a marathon runner in your online sexual encounters.
7. You Might Just Meet Love
Meet like-minded people: Let’s be honest. There aren’t many people in the real world who share your enthusiasm for Harappan-era role-playing, but you might just find your sexual soul mate who is. Oh, yes, this might just be your Tinder.
8. Intimacy
Good for couples in long-distance relationships: Cybersex doesn’t always have to involve two complete strangers with no prior knowledge of each other. Couples in long-distance relationships could also indulge in it and make up for the loss of physical intimacy. All you need is a high-speed internet connection and a good-quality webcam.
9. Sometimes, Porn is just Not enough
More dynamic than watching porn: When compared to watching porn, cybersex is a much more interesting and creative way to get your rocks off. In an adult chat room, you engage your mind, senses, and creativity, which is far superior to simply watching videos of strangers having fun!
Now for the disadvantages. Overindulging in cybersex can detract from the real thing. You may experience intimacy issues as well as major physical and mental health disorders.
According to Dr Rahul Khemani, a psychiatrist from Wockhardt Hospital, Mumbai, “Virtual sex is actually fairly safe, especially during the ongoing pandemic when couples and singles are living in isolation. In addition, virtual sex is absolutely fine for those who are experienced in real sex because they know how the entire process falls into place. But, when it comes to a first-timer, it can be really problematic because it can malign the idea of sex in their heads.”
1. It can lead to sexual dysfunction
Indulging in virtual sex too frequently, according to a study, is a major cause of genital disorders. It has raised the risk of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction in men. It can cause delayed orgasm or the inability to experience orgasm in women.
2. It leads to unrealistic expectations
Porn and real sex are not the same thing. When you expose yourself to porn too frequently and are unable to match that level, your performance suffers as well.
“The problem arises when you encounter sex in the real world. When you’re preoccupied with what you’ve seen in the virtual world, you end up not focusing on the act. It becomes difficult to feel the sense of satisfaction that leads to problems like performance anxiety,” said Dr Khemani.
3. It causes intimacy issues
When virtual sex is on your mind, you want to indulge in it whenever possible. This reduces the amount of time you spend with your family or partner.
The larger issue is that virtual sex appears to be displacing real sex. Physical touch, which is essential for bonding, is lacking.
“In my experience, I’ve seen people divorcing their partners as their idea of sex has been distorted due to virtual sex. Basically, they feel unsatisfied,” said Dr Khemani.
4. It can also lead to mood disorders
Virtual sex instills false expectations in people. The issue arises when people are unable to perform as well as they have seen others do online. This results in disappointment. The individual may become irritable, anxious, or even aggressive.
5. Believe it or not can affect your sleep
When this indulgence becomes an addiction, it can interfere with your sleep, according to Dr. Khemani. It spirals out of control. When people spend more time watching porn or in chat rooms, they sacrifice sleep. Sleep deprivation reduces concentration and increases irritability.
“Virtual sex is fine when it doesn’t affect your day-to-day work. When it becomes an obsession, it can lead to many problems and can wreck your entire life. So, be vigilant,” said Dr Khemani.
Virtual sex is great for releasing all that sexual energy, but overindulging can have serious consequences.