Make Her Moan To The Moon: The More Advanced Techniques (And Tips)

Hi folks!  And welcome to another edition of How to Make Her Moan To The Moon!  Yeah, I sound like an 80s host who looks like a sex offender.  But dudes and dudettes, since we’ve brought you the most basic pussy pleasuring techniques here, we are going a to up the ante.

Aubrey Sinclair

As promised, here the 9 more advanced cunnilingus techniques (way better than the pancake and vortex) and tips.  And in no particular order of difficulty or pussy pleasuring level.

1.  Under Pressure

This is very much like the pancake but you are applying extra pressure to the below her clitoris.  Yup, when you are making your way, paintbrush style, up her vulva and just right before reaching her clit, you should put more pressure so that the base of your tongue is forced under her clit slightly.

Once the base of your tongue is under her clit, slow down your movement, but don’t release the pressure yet.  Now, as you continue to move upwards, she will feel the texture of your tongue stimulate the bottom of her clit.  This variation is adding a further dimension to your pancake technique.

2.  Giving her the Finger

Now, this isn’t exactly a technique but an add on.  Yup, using your fingers while eating her pussy can be awesome.  You’ll be able to simultaneously stimulate her internally and externally and provides her with lots of variation.  Lots!  Like a gazillion ways to finger her while licking her like crazy.

3.  Licking While G-Spotting

Now, this is a combination of 1 and 3.

Applying the “under pressure” under her clit while giving her the finger (targetting her G Spot) is a great way of pleasuring your partner.  You can also use your other hand to press down or rub her mons pubis to provide stimulation of the G-spot externally.

4.  Licking While Pressing Downwards

Another variation of 1 and 2 combined.  This time, you press and massage the bottom of her vagina while you lick and gently suck at her clit.  Do this alternately with number 3 and you’ll be a king the next morning.

5.  Play with Her Ass While You’re at It.

This is probably the busiest variation of the combination of 1 and 2.  Yup, You’ll need both hands for this.  In number three, we told you to use your free hand in pressing/rubbing her mons pubis…  This time, while licking her clit and fingering her G-Spot (or pressing the bottom of the V), you’re going to play with her ass.  And there are a bunch of ways you can do that…


  • Caress the outside (yup, the outer ring) without ever penetrating it
  • Light and rhythmic pressure on the opening without penetrating it (like you want to go in but you won’t)
  • A gentle in & out penetration. About up until the middle phalanx of your finger
  • Holding your finger inside her ass and gently roll or wiggle like a worm

6.  Edging

Now, this will cause her to have one of the most powerful orgasms ever.  But please also remember that it’s difficult for some women to come, even if you eat pussy the right way.  So our advice is to please, always give good foreplay.  Okay, now back to this edging…

So what is edging?  Edging is like going to the edge of a balcony about to jump into a pool of the best-brewed beer.  But you didn’t jump.  You’d step back. Then after a few seconds, you’d go back to the edge again for that wonderful jump.  See where we’re getting here?

Now start eating out your partner as you normally would…  and when you can tell she is getting close to climaxing, start to slow down and back off, so she doesn’t orgasm.

Spend twenty seconds to a couple minutes on something else pleasurable that won’t bring her to orgasm like kissing her breasts, kissing her thighs or whatever.  Then when she has calmed down just a little bit, return to eating her out as normal, but at a slightly slower pace this time.  Again, you want to do this up until she is about to climax, then…

Stop. But don’t ‘Hammer Time’.

Again, spend some time on other pleasurable, but non-orgasm-inducing activities until she has calmed down.  Repeat like 3 to 4 times.

7.  A Helping Hand or No Help At All

Remember that it takes two to tango.  So while you’re performing what you think is the wettest and best cunnilingus, ask her to be in control and let her drive you.  Yup, using your head like a steering wheel. Let her take your mouth to wherever she pleases.  All you got to do is suck and lick…  the traveling is all up to her.


Dominate your pussy eating session by tying her hands.  All she can do is wiggle her hips and talk.  Some women love this. Believe us.

8.  Comfort Helps a Lot

Communicate.  Ask her which position she’s most comfortable with and which side of her clitoris she likes the most to have stimulated.  Yup, as some likes to be eaten sideways.  Just ask.  Left or right side?  Top or bottom?  Somewhere in between?

“Her clitoris has crura (legs) that extend below the clitoris and under the skin to either side of her vaginal opening.  This may be the reason there is a particular side that is most sensitive for her.”

9.  Experiment With Your Tongue

Remember that there in experimenting.  Some women like it uber gentle while some likes it rough.  Try to gauge her reaction.

Oh, if you can’t think of any, you can start with these basics…

  • Reverse pancake. Start at the top of her clit and move downwards
  • Try holding your tongue on her pussy with sustained pressure
  • Swirling your tongue around her clit
  • Flicking her clit up-and-down or side-to-side
  • Curling your tongue up and using it penetrate her.

So there you have. But please, do not use the alphabet.  They don’t like it.  Also, don’t try to imitate porn.  Those aren’t real and are not really pleasurable.

Anissa Kate

Okay, next time, we’ll talk about how to pleasure her with penetration.  Long or short, thick or thin…  Oh, watch out for that article.

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