The cold season is once again here friends. And we’re pretty sure that your morning wood is more painful now. Oh, and yeah, sometimes, having sex can be a pain in your cold ass as it is… cold. But don’t worry. We know you don’t lose your drive one bit. It’s just that, with the cold… It kind of gets boring. You know… The sex. But really, to those who are suffering from ‘sleep is better in this weather’ (mostly women), this article is for you. Did you know that sex in this weather can be more enjoyable? And that it can actually help you not get sick?
Oh, sex, the best and most enjoyable way to stay warm… Now, let us count the ways on why it is best to get intimate in this season.
1. Your partner’s body heat, you’ll appreciate more
Let’s face it, during the summer season, it can get icky. But the cold winter weather means that your partner is actually reaching out for you to keep him/her. Oh, and the friction. You’d appreciate your bodies rubbing against each other as soon as you start getting busy. So yeah, it’s simply more comfortable to have sex in the winter than it is in the summertime.
2. Conserving your energy means going slow and enjoying more
While summertime sex (sans air conditioning, of course) usually needs to be a quick event so that you and your partner don’t get heatstroke, winter sex means you can get up and close and personal for as long as you both can last. No worries about sweat or overheating or any of the other icky stuff that happens during summer sex! Burrow down under those blankets and try out one of the awesome winter sex positions which we will discuss later.
3. The much-needed cuddling is always there
Cuddling can sometimes be optional after summer sex, simply because you’re both sticky and hot and probably the last thing you want is more body heat. But in the winter, you’re probably going to want to get your cuddle on.
4. The Alternative uses of scarves
This might not seem to super obvious, especially if you’re not especially kinky, but scarves can definitely be sex toys: They can easily be used as restraints, blindfolds, or even gags. Winter means that you probably have scarves flung all over your room, meaning there’s always one within easy reach if you feel like spicing things up a little bit. Yup, always ready. So be an Eagle Scout.
5. It can boost your moods and have you avoid getting sick
A 2004 study from researchers at Wilkes University found that having sex frequently was correlated with higher levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody that plays an important part in immunity. Since our immune systems are weaker in the wintertime, winter sex is simply the healthy thing to do.
Okay, so now we’re done on the WHYs, let’s us now focus on the HOWs, shall we?
How do you do it? Well, let’s build up the difficulty of the positions. Keep in mind, these positions can work for two women as well.
1. The immortal spooning
Yup, nothing can show intimacy at its best than this. For the women, you literally just do your favorite cuddling position, except with your partner inside you. You may need to lift up your upper leg, and lube is going to be your friend— trust me. Because it’s about as lazy and snuggly as you can possibly get. That much body contact keeps your nice and warm and it’s absolutely perfect for morning sex. On top of that, you get G-spot and clitoral stimulation, so everyone’s a winner.
2. Sitting with a lot of hugging
It’s not the easiest to get into, but after you sit cross-legged, you have your woman climb on top of you (facing each other) and slowly glide it in. It’s basically a hug in a sex position. I mean, you’re wrapping your arms and legs around them, and they’re doing the same with you. You get to bear hug and doing it at the same time. Super intimate and perfect for chilly days.
3. The belly flat doggy
Think of it as doggy style when you sort of collapse onto your arms. So it’s half laying down. You can put a pillow under your partner’s hips for extra support. Again, it’s got more body contact than regular doggy which makes it both intimate and warm. But it still has that sexy, sort of animalistic, aspect of doggy, just all softened a bit.
4. Cross-legged deep penetration
Woman, you get to lie down— your partner doesn’t. You’re on your back and your partner stands, while you both guide them inside you. Cross your ankles for a ridiculously tight fit, and you can relax your legs against your partner if need be. Because if your S.O. is going to be up out of bed and not under the covers, it’s got to be for something good. And the insanely tight fit of this position is totally worth it.
5. Coital alignment technique
Your favorite missionary position, but with your legs hiked up and wrapped around your partner. Not necessarily as high as his shoulders, because that’s too intense for some people. A pillow under you will help with any lower back strain. And because it takes the basic missionary position and makes it all the more intimate and snuggly. You’ll have to go a bit more slowly and, if you use a pillow, you’ll get really deep penetration. Also, it’s one of the best positions for female orgasm.
6. Girl domination
Climb on top, guide your partner inside of you and then you can play. Lean forward or back, grind or bounce— whatever you feel like. The choices are endless. But it is best if your bellies rub against each other. Best enjoyed while still wearing a blanket.
7. The crab walk
Your partner gets into the crab walk position, weight spread between hands and feet, and you go gym-class style and crab walk over to them.
This is a sex position for experts but it still involves both of you being close to the bed and the face-to-face element gives some intimacy.
All of these, you can do in your bedroom or under a blanket fort which you made in your living room. Just in front of the fireplace. You’re all welcome!