Now, in this age of lockdowns and quarantines, what is better to do than better yourselves and experiment (sexually, of course) with your partners. Ah yes, this is part two of our ‘variations’ articles. We told you the stuff you could do while or with the missionary position… Now, we’re going to show you how you can make your doggie sessions more enjoyable. So sit back and yeah, you might want to bookmark this one for future reference.
Doggy Style is the perfect position if you like feeling submissive while your man takes control. Traditional doggy doesn’t guarantee an orgasm, sadly enough. But he best part about the doggy-style is that it doesn’t even require a bed. Try it in the shower, standing on a staircase while holding onto the banister, or leaning over the kitchen counter. You could even bust it out in the car if your backseat is big enough. Yup, it’s the fastest way to have sex!
If you think of it, rear entry is the quickest way to penetrate your girl, even if she’s wearing pants or jeans. She just bends over, unzip, and drop her pants – then bam! In other sex positions like Missionary, Cowgirl, or Standing, she would need to remove her jeans completely, before you can get an entry into her vagina. So, if she wears tight pants, it would be quite a work to pull her jeans before you or she can go on top. In doggy, you can just pull it down – just enough – to reveal her ass and pussy for you to get an entry. Of course, it would be even faster if she wears shorts or a mini skirt, but at least for me, doggy is the best position for a quickie!
Okay, now before we go to the variations, how about the specifics on how to do that. I mean, your responsibilities…
THE WOMAN IN THE DOGGY STYLE POSITION
When you are in the Doggy-Style position, you don’t have to do much other than stay in position. If you want harder penetration, then you can push back onto your man with each stroke. Or you can use one hand to masturbate during the deed. You can change the angle he is penetrating you at by arching your back either downwards or upwards, along with moving your upper body either up or down.
THE MAN IN THE DOGGY STYLE POSITION
Girls, your man will be thrusting in and out when you are in the Doggystyle position. But there are a bunch of simple things that he can do to change it up and add some very exciting variation in.
- If he leans backward or forwards a little, he can alter the angle of entry.
- When your man is behind you, he is in the perfect position to reach around and start rubbing your clit or even finger you if you are having anal sex.
- Your man can have his legs inside your legs. Or he can have them outside your legs. Try both to see what you find most satisfying.
- If you like your man being dominant, then he can spank you from behind during Doggy Style. He can also grab your hair while riding you.
- If you like more intense sex, then he can grab your waist and pull you into him with each thrust. Another option is for him to grab your shoulders to pull you in.
- For more sensual sex, he can lightly scratch your back.
Now for the basic doggie variations…
1. Tight-Legged
Getting into the typical doggy stance, have your girl keep her legs closed and open yours around them. As well, get her to arch her back and lean on her hands rather than lean down and rest on her elbows on the bed (or whatever surface you happen to be on). To help her maintain that stance, wrap your hand around her hair and give it an occasional tug while you’re having sex.
In addition to hair-pulling, you can rub her spine lightly and even hug her waist while you penetrate her. Legs closed is an interesting position because it also gives the female partner some control over a position that is sometimes considered to be a very submissive position for women.
2. Upright Torsos
Get into your regular doggy stance, but lift your torso along with your girl’s so that you’re upright while you penetrate. Doing this in a location where she’s facing the wall or, say, the bedpost, will allow her to place her hands there to maintain balance while you’re going in and out.
Use your free hands to caress her breasts and butt, rub her shoulders and get a better grip for penetration. This position also allow you room to easily kiss her mouth and neck, and the angle of penetration will offer you a better way to stimulate her G-spot with your penis.
3. Stand Down, Boy
While she bends over on the edge of the bed, her feet and shins hanging off it, you stand against it and make your way in. Of course, if the bed is too high or you have a significant height difference, you will have to make some adjustments.
She can raise or lower her body to accommodate you, and you can stand straight or bend your knees.
4. Stand Down, Girl
If she’s much shorter than you, you may not want to attempt this position. Otherwise, have her face the other way and bend down so that her butt is sticking out toward you. Her torso should be parallel to the ground.
While you kneel on the edge of the bed, hold on to her hips and make your way in. Make sure to go slowly, as she needs to maintain her balance. Better yet, let her control the tempo. If needed, a chair or some kind of support for her hands can reduce back fatigue and stabilize her in this position.
5. Climb To The Top
While she’s in position, stand up and place your body right above her butt. Then, bend down so that you can place your penis inside her. Ensure that you’re balanced; otherwise you may end up falling on top of her. Place your hands on her back without pressing down, or use the help of a wall or bedpost to maintain balance. Just make sure you don’t hit your head!
Be careful not to thrust too quickly initially; ensure that she enjoys the sensation first.
Now that you have even more variety to add to your bedroom ventures, make sure that you use them sparingly and wisely. And don’t forget that penetration is just a fraction of what good sex entails. Make every moment count. Oh, and here… keep these in mind…
Bring in nipple play.
If you like breast stimulation, doggy is the perfect position to incorporate them, says Cadell. Grab your partner’s hands and place them on your breasts. Then, by keeping your hands over theirs, you can show them exactly the way you want to be touched—think of it as a naughty show-and-tell.
Give yourself a hand.
Using your fingers or a vibrator (bullet vibes work great here), stimulate your clitoris as your partner thrusts, for a doubly powerful, blended climax. This is, by far, one of the primo ways to increase your chances of orgasm during doggy, says Allison.
Be smart about surfaces.
Rugburn on your knees isn’t fun, and neither is slipping on satin sheets when you’re ~trying~ to be sexy. Consider adding a plush pillow under your knees if you’re doing doggy on the floor (this is a great go-to for quiet sex), position yourself close enough to a headboard or other surface to have something to grasp as your partner thrusts, or bunch up a couple of throw blankets under your hands and knees to create a little slip-proof friction.
Bring in butt play.
If you’re into it, this is the easiest position to switch from vaginal sex to anal, says Cadell, since your butt is (obviously) right there. Just make sure to switch the condom to avoid infection, and if it’s your first time, be sure to use plenty of lube and go slow.
Now, these are just the basics, you guys. We will focus on the more challenging stuff next time like the “Frog Leap” (yes, there is such a thing). Watch out for our part 2.