Even if you do not have outstanding physical data or you and the girl just do not match on the olfactory level, you still have a chance to remain in her memory an excellent lover. To do this, just follow six simple rules.
Always shower
Think taking a shower every three days is an unnecessary luxury and also deprives the earth of precious chlorinated water? Be my guest. But make an exception if you’re going to have sex (I mean, if with someone else). Be sure to take a shower right before sex. Trust me, a good lover is first and foremost a clean lover.
Don’t ignore the foreplay
Finding a man who doesn’t rush anywhere, pant or fall asleep five minutes after you start is a big deal. Women, unlike men, in sex are more focused on the process than on the result. And they get excited more slowly. So quality and unhurried foreplay can elevate you in the eyes of girls (even if after foreplay you are so exhausted that you fall asleep).
Ask her how she likes it
Of course, you shouldn’t ask too many questions. But too good self-image and overconfidence can be detrimental. So be sure to ask the girl if she likes the fact that you have sex on the washing machine. Perhaps she prefers a dishwasher.
Be open to new things
We girls love experimentation. But, unfortunately, we rarely mention them: the archetypal notion that a decent woman should have a secular, not licentious encounter with sex is too strong in us. So offer yourself, you filthy animal. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how far every other decent girl can go in experimenting with sex. You can try to make a home porno or play role-playing games.
Take responsibility for your own orgasm
You’ve probably noticed that everyone is obsessing about the female orgasm, and few people mention the male one. Of course, because it’s easy for a man to have an orgasm! That’s why when we run into a man who just can’t seem to climax, we’re even more lost than you are when you can’t bring a girl to orgasm. Please take care of your own orgasm. Don’t test our patience with endless sex that leads to nothing (frankly, the value of sex is greatly diminished after an hour of vigorous exertion in bed). Be a man, tell us exactly what you want and in what position.
Don’t take sex seriously
Excessive piety for sex can ruin the most enjoyable evening. If we see that a man takes sex as a serious marathon (worst of all – charity), we ourselves become nervous and can not relax. So don’t be afraid to make a joke (but not about the girl’s looks!) or laugh (again, not at her looks!). An easy-going attitude toward sex helps you open up and get the pleasure that’s due.