Every guy wants to be the one who makes her squirt. Porn makes it look like flicking a switch — two jabs and suddenly she’s shooting across the room. Reality? It’s messy, unpredictable, and a hell of a lot sexier than some staged “water fountain” scene, but it only happens when you’ve got the right mix of technique, pressure, and trust.
Do it right and she’s not just moaning; she’s gripping the sheets, thrashing under you, soaking everything in reach, and staring at you like you’ve unlocked a secret part of her body she didn’t even know was there.
What Squirting Really Is
Yes, squirting is real, and no, it’s not “just piss.” Studies show the fluid comes from the Skene’s glands (the female prostate) mixed with the bladder, which is why it can come out as a slow gush, a few squirts, or a full-on flood. Lab tests even found it can contain traces of urine, but it’s not the same as taking a leak. It’s her body reacting to very specific stimulation, and for some women, it feels like the most intense release they’ve ever had.
One of the cheap London escorts we spoke to put it bluntly: “The guys who actually make me squirt are the ones who take their time. The best sessions I’ve had are when they build me up until I’m dripping, then keep hitting my G-spot without letting up. The first time it happened, it went everywhere. It might actually have been one of the best orgasms of my life.”
Step-By-Step: How to Make Her Squirt
- Set the Scene Like You Mean It
This isn’t missionary in the dark. You need her relaxed and comfortable, or her body will shut the whole thing down. Strip the bed, throw a towel down, maybe even two. Dim the lights so she feels less self-conscious. Tell her straight up you want the mess — because if she’s holding back out of embarrassment, nothing’s going to happen.
- Foreplay Until She’s Dripping
Her G-spot doesn’t work like a light switch. It swells when she’s fully turned on. That means licking her clit until she’s clawing at you, sucking her nipples until she arches her back, teasing her thighs until she’s begging.
- Find the Spot
Slide two fingers in, palm up, and curl them towards her belly button. Two to three inches in, you’ll hit a patch that feels spongier than the rest. That’s the urethral sponge/G-spot. When she’s turned on, it’ll swell and feel firm, like a ripe peach. That’s your target.
- Pressure and Rhythm
This is where amateurs ruin it. Don’t jab like you’re searching for your keys. Apply steady, firm pressure with a “come here” motion. Your palm should be grinding against her clit at the same time. Keep the rhythm. Don’t change it every ten seconds. When she starts to writhe, keep it going — that consistency is what tips her over.
- The Climax
This is the edge most women panic at. The build-up to squirting feels a lot like the urge to pee. If you back off now, it’s gone. Tell her not to hold it, to let it go. Keep the pressure steady while reassuring her. If she relaxes into it, she’ll gush. If she clamps down, it’ll pass. Your job is to push her through that wall.
- Toys If You’re Brave
Fingers are great, but toys take it up a level. Curved G-spot vibrators hit with unrelenting pressure. Wands on her clit while you finger her can drown the sheets in minutes. Double penetration — toy in one hole, your hand in the other — can blow her mind. Just keep the lube flowing, and never yank toys out dry.
Positions That Help
Some angles just make squirting easier — they open her up, hit her G-spot harder, and let gravity do its job.
Flat on her back, hips raised — Slide a pillow under her bum so her pelvis tilts. Suddenly, your fingers (or toy) are lined up perfectly with her G-spot. It’s like unlocking cheat mode.
Doggy with your fingers underneath — Slide in from below while she’s on all fours. The angle is brutal in the best way, and you’ll have insane leverage to keep pounding that spongy patch without losing rhythm.
On your chest or face — Let her ride you, whether it’s your fingers inside or your tongue on her clit. Gravity helps pull the fluid out, and because she’s in control, she’s more likely to relax enough to let go.
Ready to Make Her Cum?
Not every woman will squirt, and not every orgasm needs to end with soaked sheets. But if you take your time, get the technique right, and give her the confidence to let go, you’ll unlock something most men never manage.
And when she does gush all over you? That’s her body giving you a memory she won’t forget, and a story she might just brag about to her friends later.