We know that almost 90 percent of our readers here are male. We also know the importance of a good cowgirl at the end of the long day. This is not being sexist but in this day and age, we know how stressful and draining it is to have a 9 to 5. It takes up both physical and mental energy. And sometimes, very little energy is left for you to perform at your finest. You also need to recharge and enjoy after a day of hustling it. We’re not saying this should be done each day of the work week but this is needed. So friend, have your ladies read this article. It is not just for you but also for her. She would reap the benefits as well.
And so we go…
It Is All In The Angle
Ladies, cowgirl does not mean sitting up straight on top of your lover at a 90-degree angle; instead, lean forward slightly (up to a 45-degree angle) for the simplest and most pleasant insertion. If you do that, he might just hit your G-spot (at your command of course as you are the boss here).
Grind The Night Away
Always move your body as if you were dancing. Sit up and swivel your hips while on top of him. To maintain balance, rest your hands on his hips or on either side of him. Rhythm is important and yes, doing it while dancing is the hottest! You know that already but just to make it clearer. Doing a good grind is like you are still in foreplay while already banging.
Be Unpredictable
Always vary the speed and depth of penetration such that there is no visible pattern. Start with shallow, fast thrusts and gradually sink onto your partner every fifth thrust. If you’re having trouble finding a rhythm, you can alternate between bouncing and grinding or varying your speeds to suit your comfort and pleasure; just don’t tell him what you’re going to do next.
Touch Each Other All Over
Experiment with your partner’s hands and your own. Have them place their hands on your hips for further leverage. When you begin to feel fatigued, bend back and place your arms behind you and on your partner’s knees or ankles to help redistribute your weight. For additional stimulation, you can massage your own breasts or play with your nipples. It’s also an entertaining visual help for your companion. Believe us. Oh, and don’t forget to look each other eye to eye and to bite your lip, lady.
Dominate Him, Girl
Do not be afraid to take control. Hold your partner’s hands above their head, or use cuffs or handcuffs to keep them from moving. Taking that power away from him will drive him insane as you demonstrate how you prefer to ride. If you’re going to use the cuffs, make sure to discuss it beforehand. Show him who’s boss!
And Tell Him He Can Take Over
Just because you’re the boss doesn’t mean you have to do everything yourself. It’s very acceptable to ask your spouse to meet you halfway and thrust from below. It also brings a different sensation if the grinding is coming from below. Like a pole swinging in the winds, baby!
Give It A Little Squeeze
Tucking your legs under your partner for added leverage and support can make a significant impact. Consider what happens when someone holds your feed down as you perform sit-ups: you may suddenly jolt up and down with a lot more energy than when you’re trying to weigh your legs down yourself. This exercise might help you stay stable and prevent your thighs from tiring. Just be careful with overdoing it as you might awaken a sleeping beast within him and he rolls you over.
Show Him What Your Momma Gave You
Once you’ve mastered regs cowgirl, use reverse cowgirl to put on a performance. It’s practically the same thing, except you’re facing their feet rather than their face. Not only is this a great opportunity to show off your hot body, but you can also go wild with your O-face because your back is to them. Give him facial impressions and fierce, dominating looks that he will remember forever.
Sit Him Up For More Intimacy
There is no rule that requires your spouse to be lying on their back the entire time you’re in the saddle. Try to get them to sit up and meet you face to face. This can relieve some of the pressure on your thighs, change up the rhythm, and let you grasp onto them for stability. Furthermore, while you’re facing each other like this, you’re poised to kiss or create intense eye contact.
Toys Are Your Best Friends
If you’re on top, Sinclair suggests reclining back to give yourself more access to stimulate your clit. If you need to keep your hands stable, ask your spouse to hold the vibe for you. This might be very attractive because you’re giving them complete control over your enjoyment. Play, play, play while you are playing.
