Now, guys, this is another “for her” listicle (well, for the both of you, actually). Yeah, it’s so much better when you just become the submissive one sometimes. You just sit there and let her guide you into something that feels like heaven. Yes. Yes.
As the title implies, we will be discussing oral sex. Many people consider it more than just foreplay. It can be fantastic, but most women cannot have an orgasm only from penetration. Oral sex sensations are a more consistent way for them to climax. It is also really intimate. I mean, what could be more intimate than having your partner’s genitals inside your mouth? Your kissing, giving mouth.
So let’s start…
The Saddle Straddle
Ladies, if you have a dominant partner, they will enjoy straddling you while you rub and suck their adored penis, which is thrusting out in front of your face. Try using both hands to twist up and down their shaft while licking the area surrounding their head.
The Seated Sizzle
Ladies, make your man happy by utilizing your tongue and hand together, seven strokes up, one lovely stroke down. And, for a vulva, alternate between an intense move (deep sucking, swaying your head back and forth, quick tongue flicks) and a few long languorous licks of their entire vulva. When incoherent moaning occurs, you’ve reached the proper ratio.
The Deep Fake Throat
By lubricating your hand to take that part of his shaft you can’t manage, you can simulate the sensation of deep throating without the gag. Stroke in sync with your mouth or work in different directions. Look up into your partner’s eyes and moan if you’re feeling it to cause more havoc.
The Leg Up
Women may have a more sensitive side of their vulva than the other, so choose which leg you’ll hold up carefully, allowing the other to dangle over the edge of the bed. They can lick figure eights up and down the exposed side of your vulva until you spontaneously break into Mariah Carey’s “Hero.”
The House Bound
Restraints are ideal for folks who have difficulty getting out of their minds. Try having one individual lie back, wrists chained behind their knees. The position and binding create a sense of vulnerability and draw attention to the feelings taking place. Oh, the sensations one could have while totally submitting.
The Submarine
Since oral is tough to pull off underwater, lie back on a towel with your hips at the edge of the bathtub. Spread your legs, allowing your feet to dangle in the water, and admire what your spouse can do with their tongue. If they enjoy basking in the warm jets, they can stay down there for a little longer. All parties benefit. Viola!
The Butterball
This is an excellent position for both cunnilingus and rim jobs. After you’ve showered, lie back with your knees bent up toward your chest. This position still allows the giving partner to easily access the receiver’s breasts and clitoris—or, with a male butt, the penis and testicles—for stimulating enjoyment. If you need a barrier for your rimming but don’t have a dental dam, a quick sex hack is to use some plastic wrap instead.
The Deep Diver
Another excellent rim job position, it may be a very hot introduction to take a shower together and practice some rimming while you’re there. For novices, I recommend starting in a simple standing stance. The receiver can rise up and hold on to the wall if necessary, while the other person can squat behind them. We recommend this for persons who are self-conscious or concerned that it is not sanitary or clean.
The Big Boss
Ladies, if your spouse is all about Mistress of the Dungeon, you could have a “take charge” session where you place them in a chair, blindfold them, and tell them you’re in command for the night, not allowing them to climax until you say it’s acceptable. Next time, it will be your fantasy.
The Constellation
If oral sex is uncomfortable, consider rolling onto your side. This position is ideal for persons who suffer from hip spasticity, which makes it difficult to stretch their legs apart for oral sex. It still provides your spouse with adequate access without putting you in a dangerous situation.
The Dam Girl
Let’s talk safety for a moment! Dental dams, which are rectangles of protective plastic placed over the vulva during oral sex to protect the mouth from the genitals and vice versa, have the added benefit of allowing you to get a little filthy. The receiver gets on all fours, while the provider gets behind and drapes the dam over the vulva and bum hole before licking. It’s convenient and easy to get to without being too much of a hassle. And if you want to try with some rimming, the dental dam functions similarly to a disposable toilet-seat cover, allowing you to make some contact without fully touching.
The Supersize
When they’re on the verge of having an orgasm (signs include ragged breathing, balls tightening toward their body, or the classic “Oh god, I’m gonna come”), pause briefly and/or gently tug downward on their balls to cool them down. Repeat the excruciating edging until they beg. Press a finger or vibrator firmly against their taint as they approach and observe the results.
The Swiper
Make a little suction with your partner’s lips on your clit and labia, then shake their head side to side in circles, swiftly or slowly. This mirrors how many of us touch ourselves and will bring you there very nicely. Elevate your bum on some pillows to allow you easier access.
The Peace Out
Take a seat while your lover lays two fingers on either side of your clit and does a scissor motion while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clitoris. It isolates the clitoris from the rest of the body and focuses on the pleasure.
The Corkscrew
Have your partner stand and you kneel in front of them. Hold the base of their penis with both hands, place them in your mouth, and slowly tilt your head from side to side while working your way up and down their shaft.
All Hail The Queen
The trick to face-sitting is not to sit on their face, unless you want to have a deadly vagina. Straddle their head and give yourself a light thigh workout by holding yourself a few inches above their face as they descend on you. They can reach up and grab your buttocks and hips, and who doesn’t enjoy grabbing a buttock?
Doggy Goes Oral
Not only is this a hot oral position that gives you control over the angle and pressure, but it’s also an excellent introduction to the realm of anilingus, if you’re interested.
So-Fa So Good
Have your partner lie upside down on the couch, back and head on the seat, legs draped over the back. Kneel over their face and face the back of the couch. Then, bend over and 69 away. Isn’t that far more soothing than an awkward, limb-flailing 69 in bed?
The Cliff-Hanger
Sit on the bed’s edge and lie back with your legs wrapped over it. When they kneel between your legs, their head will be tilted downward toward your vagina, allowing them direct access to your clitoris. This one also leaves their hands free to play with your nipples or finger you for added pleasure.
The Deep V
If you’re having difficulties staying in the right frame of mind, try this position. Lie back on the edge of the bed and grab your thighs, holding them out in a V form (Not-so-flexible version: Bend them at the knee). Have your lover go down on you and gently massage your inner thighs, bringing more blood to your vulva. The massage also helps you stay present, resulting in a scream-inducing orgasm.
The Sidecar
Lie on your sides, facing each other, and glide down until their penis is in your face. Call that a lazy blow job. Because no one is worth ruining your knees or causing a severe neck ache.
The Spiderman
Blow jobs typically don’t offer much of a view, but this position offers your lover a complete, gorgeous view of your hot physique. Lie on your back on the bed, head hanging over the edge. Have them stand behind you and lean forward so you can grab their penis with your hands and mouth while upside down. They’re also in an ideal position to finger your nipples or clit while you lay down (up?) on them.