Some of you might think that you’re pretty good at it.\u00a0 But are you?\u00a0 This article is a guide (and tips, for those who don’t know some details) on mastering the 69 position.\u00a0 Oh, and this one is not only for you.\u00a0 Have your girl read this, too.\u00a0 So are you ready to rock each other’s world?\u00a0 Of course, you are.<\/p>\n
Nothing is more intimate than this position…\u00a0 The beauty of 69-ing is that it allows both of you to experience the intimacy and physicality of oral sex simultaneously.<\/p>\n
The most popular (and probably most common) 69-ing position is for one person to lie on their back while the other person lies in the opposite manner (on top).\u00a0 But you can experiment, of course.\u00a0 You and your partner basically have an unofficial 69 Position.\u00a0 You know, your usual…\u00a0 meaning one of you is always top and one of you is always on the bottom?\u00a0 If so, reverse the position! This will allow you both to explore each other’s genitals from a different perspective, maybe introducing you to new hot places.<\/p>\n
Are you going to get paralysis from 69-ing?\u00a0 Probably not.\u00a0 However, if your neck remains in a suboptimal position for an extended period of time, you may tweak a muscle, pinch a nerve, or cramp.\u00a0 So, if you’re on the bottom, keep your neck supported with a wrapped shirt, cushion, or other positioning solutions.<\/p>\n
Your entire body, including your neck, should be comfortable.\u00a0 If you are positioned in a way that causes discomfort, it will limit your ability to enjoy pleasure.\u00a0 So, before you begin licking, take the time to locate the best posture for both of your bodies to open up and relax into the pleasure.<\/p>\n
The mouth and tongue can perform various functions that our genitals cannot, such as licking, sucking, blowing, flicking, nipping, and biting.\u00a0 So, spend some time discovering what your partner enjoys, and connect with them along the route, allowing them to tell you what they appreciate.<\/p>\n
Ask questions like:<\/p>\n
“Do you prefer it when I flick or suck?” “I’m going to attempt different tongue speeds. Will you let me know when I create one that you like?” “Does it feel good?”<\/em> Pro Tip:<\/strong>\u00a0 Once you’ve found two or three motions that your partner enjoys, continue with them for a bit before trying another.<\/p>\n Another Pro Tip:<\/strong>\u00a0 Don’t just rely on your mouth.\u00a0 Use your hand.\u00a0 Why limit yourself to your lips when you may use your hands to hold, touch, squeeze, stroke, circle, and penetrate your partner?\u00a0 Using your hands will not only enhance the sensations listed above, but will also save your mouth from tiring.<\/p>\n When one partner is taller than the other, the difference in height is often due to leg length rather than torso length.\u00a0 Usually, even with a height difference, the standard 69 position can be done comfortably.\u00a0 The conventional arrangement cannot accommodate extreme height discrepancies.<\/p>\n In these cases, White suggests trying sideways 69 (also known as slanted 69), which positions both couples on their sides.\u00a0 The taller partner can form a C-shape with their body, which “eliminates” their height and helps align their lips with their genitals.\u00a0 Another alternative is for one partner to perform oral sex while the other uses an oral sex stimulation gadget, such as the Tenga Easy-Beat Egg or We-Vibe Melt (look it up).<\/p>\n Oh, and body type doesn’t really matter. You see, 69 is an excellent position since it accommodates most body type combinations, including partners of varying body sizes.\u00a0 If one partner is larger-bodied, they may be on the bottom.\u00a0 Alternatively, attempt sideways 69, which ensures that neither one bears the weight of the other person.<\/p>\n Oh, and you will totally need these, especially if you are in your 40s….<\/p>\n Small spherical and hemispherical pillows are ideal for your neck.\u00a0 Even the maternity pillows function wonderfully.<\/p>\n For your body:<\/strong>\u00a0 Do you enjoy being on top, but wish it wasn’t so hard on your arms and core?\u00a0 Consider incorporating a sex chair.\u00a0 Stools with two elastic straps, or sex chairs, are designed to be put over the bottom partner and then mounted by the top partner.\u00a0 During the 69 position, the top partner may place the chair over their partner’s face and sit down.\u00a0 The elastic straps will provide support for your body while allowing your lover access to your genitals.<\/p>\n For your hips:<\/strong>\u00a0 If you’re on the bottom and your partner is having trouble reaching your bits, try placing a pillow beneath your hips.\u00a0 This will adjust the angle of your hips, allowing your spouse to make love to you with their tongue.<\/p>\n Finger vibrators are an excellent way to introduce vibration into play because they do not require holding.\u00a0 You just have to slip them over your finger(s).<\/p>\n You might use a finger vibrator to stimulate your partner’s clitoris between licks or insert it into the vagina.\u00a0 You can also use it to tease your partner’s perineum.\u00a0 If you already have a vibrating C-ring, you don’t need to purchase a new one.\u00a0 Simply place two (or three) fingers through the aperture.<\/p>\n Lick lower or use a butt plug.\u00a0 Yep, we\u2019re talking analingus!<\/p>\n The butthole has about 4,000 nerves that are so pleasurable that you can feel phenoms.\u00a0 The optimal position for receiving oral anal is on top in the classic 69 position.\u00a0 Leaning forward while on top should allow your partner more access.<\/p>\n Another technique to integrate the bum is to have one or both partners wear butt plugs.\u00a0 That way, every time your pelvic floor muscles tighten for pleasure \u2014 as they are likely to occur during oral \u2014 you will stimulate all of the nerves in the anal canal. Hello, sensation.<\/p>\n What if you’ve tried everything and still crave more?\u00a0 If reciprocal oral sex is not working for you and your partner,\u00a0 try a different oral sex position.<\/p>\n For example, standing kneeling oral needs the receiver to stand while the giver kneels in front (or behind!) them.\u00a0 Or face sitting (also known as squatting or oral), in which the giver lies on their back while the receiver kneels or squats over their mouth.<\/p>\n If the oral aspect of 69-ing isn’t working for you and your boo, no worries!\u00a0 Simply stick to other sex actions, such as penetrative intercourse, oral sex, fingering, and mutual masturbation.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Some of you might think that you’re pretty good at it.\u00a0 But are you?\u00a0 This article is a guide (and tips, for those who don’t know some details) on mastering the 69 position.\u00a0 Oh, and this one is not only for you.\u00a0 Have your girl read this, too.\u00a0 So are you ready to rock each […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":91,"featured_media":6996,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[2216,340],"class_list":["post-6995","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-2216","tag-oral-sex"],"yoast_head":"\r\n
\nOnce you’ve discovered something your partner likes, stick with it.\u00a0 Consistency is key to climax.<\/strong><\/p>\nHeight Doesn’t Matter<\/h2>\n
Support if there’s Discomfort<\/h2>\n
Incorporating Toys<\/h2>\n
After all, no sex position is suitable for every pleasure seeker!<\/h2>\n