{"id":5099,"date":"2022-11-24T08:06:04","date_gmt":"2022-11-24T15:06:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/?p=5099"},"modified":"2022-11-15T23:09:17","modified_gmt":"2022-11-16T06:09:17","slug":"everything-you-need-to-know-rimming","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/everything-you-need-to-know-rimming\/","title":{"rendered":"Everything You Need To Know Rimming"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anal play is all the rage at the moment.\u00a0 Yup, Analingus.\u00a0 Everyone is talking about butt stuff, and we’re not talking about anal sex.\u00a0 There are no limits in this game, friend, with people trying everything from anal toys to pegging.<\/p>\n

Could we recommend the rim job to those looking to expand their anal repertoire?\u00a0 Yup, you see…\u00a0 Rimming is when you use your tongue and lips to stimulate your partner’s anus.\u00a0 It is also known as analingus, tossing salad, ass eating, peach munching, eating the booty like groceries, and so on. The move “is referred to as ‘rimming’ because often, the rim or outer edges of the anus [are] the focus area[s],”<\/em> says Dr. Kristie Overstreet, a psychotherapist, and clinical sexologist. “This doesn’t mean that only the rim is stimulated.”<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Lana<\/a><\/p>\n

Rimming can involve inserting the tongue into the anus, circling it, or licking or kissing the rest of the butt.\u00a0 This area of your buttocks is a highly erogenous zone with an abundance of nerve endings.\u00a0 This is why, regardless of sexual orientation or gender, rimming feels good.\u00a0 The sensations are indescribable, though most people compare it to being kissed or licked on their most sensitive and ticklish areas.<\/p>\n

Although rimming has traditionally been considered a fringe sex act, it has recently gained popularity, thanks to shows like Girls and Nicki Minaj’s “Anaconda.”\u00a0 In fact, according to a 2008 study of American men, 24% had performed analingus on their partners, while 15% had been performed on by a partner.\u00a0 A 2012 Esquire poll of 500 men discovered that 12% secretly wished they were getting more anilingus.\u00a0 Unfortunately, more recent data is difficult to come by.\u00a0 Most studies have concentrated on the prevalence of anal sex in general, rather than rimming in particular.<\/p>\n

Can you get an STI (sexually transmitted infection) from rimming?<\/h2>\n

It’s conceivable.\u00a0 According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, hepatitis A, herpes, HPV, syphilis, and gonorrhea can all be transmitted through a rim job.\u00a0 Hepatitis A is spread directly through feces, whereas syphilis, HPV (genital warts), and herpes are spread through skin-to-skin contact (CDC).\u00a0 While herpes is most commonly found in the mouth or genitals, it can also occur on the lower back and buttocks, which is known as sacral herpes.\u00a0 Rimming can also spread oral gonorrhea.<\/p>\n

There are a few things you can do to reduce the possibility of STI transmission while rimming.\u00a0 To begin, look for cuts or abrasions on the tongue, lips, gums, or rectum.\u00a0 According to the CDC, these cuts can serve as entry points for infection and transmission.<\/p>\n

\"Lana<\/a><\/p>\n

You should consider using a dental dam as a second option.\u00a0 Dental dams are thin sheets of latex or polyurethane that are placed between the mouth and the vagina or anus during oral sex.\u00a0 They’re not as common in corner stores as condoms, but you can get them from Planned Parenthood or buy them online.<\/p>\n

What about bacteria from feces (poop)?<\/h2>\n

Cleanliness is an important part of rimming, both for the ick factor and to prevent the spread of bacteria.\u00a0 Digestive bacteria and parasites that pass through the anus, such as E. coli and Salmonella, can make you sick if you ingest them. Bacteria found in the anus can also cause vaginal infections.\u00a0 Even in the throes of ecstasy, you\u2019ll want to avoid spreading bacteria to the vagina via your tongue, fingers, sex toy, or penis.<\/p>\n

Fortunately, this is easily avoidable. The key is to wash your anus with soap and water.\u00a0 However, be sure to use antibacterial soap! Also, avoid rimming if you or your partner has been sick or have symptoms of a stomach bug.\u00a0 This is because “bad” bacteria are typically found in contaminated food, and most people experience diarrhea or stomach pain after consuming it. If your partner’s stomach is upset, they are more likely to pass bad bacteria to you via rimming.<\/p>\n

\"Sheri<\/a><\/p>\n

Contrary to popular belief, you don’t need to douche or enema to prep for rimming. \u201cDoing an enema is typically for play that goes a bit deeper,”<\/em> says Alicia Sinclair, a clinical sexologist and CEO of the sex toy company b-Vibe.\u00a0 Riming does not penetrate the anus.\u00a0 For the most part, you’re licking the external anus (You might be able to get a half-inch inside the anus with your tongue, but that’s about it).\u00a0 As a result, an enema isn’t required, as it is when you’re being penetrated with a penis or dildo.<\/p>\n

How should I prepare for my first time rimming?<\/h2>\n

Let’s get one thing straight right off the bat: before you put your tongue or mouth on anyone\u2019s butt, you have to ask for your partner’s consent.\u00a0 Make sure both you and your partner are down to give this a try.<\/p>\n

If you go down south without asking your partner if it’s OK beforehand, that won\u2019t be fun for anyone.\u00a0 It could even be traumatizing for them.\u00a0 Shock or discomfort also makes the anal muscles tense up, which means less pleasure for all parties involved.<\/p>\n

\"Sheri<\/a><\/p>\n

How should you bring this up with your partner?\u00a0 Let\u2019s face it: B-town isn\u2019t the first destination on everyone\u2019s list of body parts to take a tongue to.\u00a0 Again, communication and consent are key, so you\u2019ll want to have an open and honest talk with your partner to be sure you\u2019re both on board.<\/p>\n

a.) If you\u2019re bringing it up<\/strong><\/p>\n

First, remember that sex is a sensitive and even taboo topic for many.\u00a0 Upbringing, religious beliefs, and even societal misconceptions can play a role in your partner\u2019s attitude toward anal play.<\/p>\n

Listen to their concerns and avoid being dismissive of them, even if you don\u2019t agree.\u00a0 Be prepared to accept their response, even if it\u2019s not the one you were hoping for.<\/p>\n

b.) If they\u2019re bringing it up<\/strong><\/p>\n

If the tables are turned and you\u2019re the one being asked to consider rimming, you\u2019ll want to play by the same rules and hear them out.\u00a0 Avoid being judgmental.\u00a0 You should be able to speak to each other in a way that\u2019s rational, comfortable, and fosters trust.<\/p>\n

How do I give someone a rim job?<\/h2>\n

Okay, we’re here but first things first…\u00a0 Should you landscape?\u00a0 It\u2019s totally up to you.<\/p>\n

Hair between your cheeks is perfectly normal, but if you find it unsightly or uncomfortable, book a waxing appointment or break out the clippers.\u00a0 There are advantages and disadvantages to going bareback that should be considered.<\/p>\n

Pros to consider<\/strong><\/p>\n