{"id":4204,"date":"2021-06-05T11:48:09","date_gmt":"2021-06-05T18:48:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/?p=4204"},"modified":"2021-06-05T11:48:44","modified_gmt":"2021-06-05T18:48:44","slug":"does-phone-sex-cultivate-intimacy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/does-phone-sex-cultivate-intimacy\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Phone Sex Cultivate Intimacy?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Phone sex is all the rage again\u2014just like it was when it started in the 1970s and 1980s. It\u2019s sexy for many reasons: you may or may not know your partner, so there\u2019s a sense of intrigue, and you get to talk about all the sexy things you\u2019ve been bottling up. But does phone sex create intimacy? It depends on the situation.<\/p>\n

Getting Intimate Over the Phone With Your Partner<\/strong><\/h2>\n

When you think about having phone sex, you might think about calling a stranger in the middle of the night to confess your wildest thoughts to them. But a lot of people have phone sex that contributes directly to their intimacy.<\/p>\n

People who are in long-distance relationships already understand this. Phone sex isn\u2019t the same as having in-person sex, but that\u2019s because sometimes it\u2019s even better. Hearing your partner communicate their sexual desires over the phone is different from how they sound when you\u2019re in the same room together. Your partner must be much more explicit about how you make them feel, what they are doing, what they like, and what they want. You may know their sexual preferences very well, but phone sex will show you a new side of them. Phone sex removes your ability to use some of your senses\u2014smell, touch, taste, and sight\u2014and it places the focus only on the sound of your partner\u2019s voice.<\/p>\n

Even if you are very close, there might be some things that your partner isn\u2019t comfortable sharing\u2014yet. If you look at the top ten sex chat topics<\/a> as reported by professional sex chat hosts, some of the subjects are uncommon, like a mommy fetish or small penis humiliation. People often look outside their relationships because our culture shames some of these kinks and makes them hard to discuss. But with phone sex, you have a little bit more space and freedom to be wild. You\u2019re not looking anyone in the eye. You can confess some of your kinkiest desires and see how your partner reacts without having to worry about a judgmental facial expression. Phone sex fosters this newfound openness, and your sex life will be all the more intimate for trying it.<\/p>\n

Intimacy With a Stranger<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The truth is that phone sex is intimate, even if you\u2019re with a stranger. In a way, you\u2019re telling your deepest, darkest secrets to someone, so it doesn\u2019t matter if you know them well. The fact remains that you\u2019re sharing a vulnerable part of yourself and baring your soul to someone. Perhaps the part of your soul that you\u2019re baring is the fact that you want to be told exactly how to jerk off, but that doesn\u2019t make the confession any less significant. Some people who have phone sex are relieved that they are talking with a stranger\u2014so that they don\u2019t have to deal with the ramifications after the call has ended. But for others, phone sex is a bridge to an intimate relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not even all that uncommon. What starts as an adventure with someone you don\u2019t know can end as a friendship or something more. This professional phone sex operator talks about how she has formed real relationships with those who have called to avail themselves of her services.<\/p>\n