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There is a fine line between objectifying and admiring beauty.\u00a0 Or is there?\u00a0 Who the hell cares!\u00a0 All I know is we appreciate two extremely attractive beings making love to each other.\u00a0 It’s like watching Halley’s comet dance with Ceasar’s comet dance with each other in the midnight sky…\u00a0 Yes!\u00a0 That is perhaps the main reason why you and I love lesbian porn.\u00a0 Yup, exactly that and the sudden surge of libido once we hear two hot women kissing and slowly getting down on it!<\/p>\n

\"Riley<\/a><\/p>\n

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Okay, so there’s that. It totally covers why we men love lesbian sex.\u00a0 Now, how about women?\u00a0 Do they watch it?\u00a0 How do lesbians have sex, really?\u00a0 Because lesbian porn sex is 90% acting and aesthetics.\u00a0 Well, folks…\u00a0 we will discuss all of that with this article.\u00a0 Oh, and this is not just for you guys.\u00a0 Have your girlfriends or wives read this.\u00a0 And then ask them about lesbian porn.\u00a0 It could lead to a more exciting sex life for both (or plus 1) of you.<\/p>\n

Straight Women Love Them<\/h2>\n

“Lesbian” is the most popular porn category for female viewers, according to a report.\u00a0 Yup, a report.<\/p>\n

A recent PornHub report shows that “lesbian” is the most popular category for female viewers of this digital porn portal.\u00a0 The category was actually 151% more popular with women than with men.\u00a0 Surprising, right?<\/p>\n

\"Anikka<\/a><\/p>\n

Of course, lesbian women probably account for some of that popularity.\u00a0 But the data suggests that a lot of straight women are clicking into it, too.\u00a0 A recent Gallup poll found just 5% of women identify as LGBT, which leads us to believe plenty of straight-identifying women are getting off on girl-on-girl porn.\u00a0 Now, why do you think is that?\u00a0 You see, in lesbian porn, the male’s pleasure is not the focus.\u00a0 Yup, because admit it or not, it doesn’t cater to all women.\u00a0 It is usually centered around male pleasure and it often involves super aggressive intercourse with the guy in control.\u00a0 But penis-in-vagina jackhammering isn’t what makes most women hit that high note.\u00a0 Instead, it’s more about clitoral stimulation, and there’s lots of that in lesbian porn.\u00a0 Oh, and hetero porn always seems to end when the guy ejaculates.\u00a0 Lesbian porn is all about women reaching that big O.\u00a0 So Yes, it’s more relatable to them because…<\/p>\n

Female Sexuality Is More Fluid<\/h2>\n

Culturally, it’s more acceptable for women to experiment sexually with women than for men to play around with men.\u00a0 That’s not to say lesbian women don’t still face discrimination.\u00a0 But when a woman hooks up with another woman, it’s often seen as sexy; when a man does it, it’s seen as strange.\u00a0 That’s one reason women are more sexually fluid.\u00a0 Studies have shown that women are turned on by a much wider range of things than men, she says.\u00a0 Why we’re hard-wired that way is unclear, but it’s something to embrace and enjoy.<\/p>\n

So are all these women watching lesbian porn secretly attracted to women themselves?<\/p>\n

Maybe some, sure. “Women do tend to be more fluid in their sexuality and allow themselves greater permission to explore their curiosities than men tend to,”<\/em> Vanessa Marin, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy and female orgasm says.<\/p>\n

\"Riley<\/a><\/p>\n

Whereas our culture heavily punishes men for exploring sexualities outside the accepted heterosexual norms, women don’t quite get the same amount of social blowback for showing interest in other women.\u00a0 Simply put, it’s just a lot easier and more socially acceptable for women to wander outside the lines of straightness to see what else is out there.<\/p>\n

But while some studies have suggested that women are more likely than men to be sexually aroused by both men and women, that doesn’t necessarily mean those women would be interested in actually sexually engaging with other women.\u00a0 Fantasy and reality are different, after all, and not everything we’re physically aroused by is necessarily what mentally turns us on.<\/p>\n

So to put it simply:\u00a0 No, enjoying lesbian porn as a woman doesn’t necessarily mean you’re secretly lesbian, bisexual, or some other sexual identity involving attraction to women.<\/p>\n

The Draw of Lesbian Porn for Women<\/h2>\n

Again, porn categories involving men and women usually depict scenarios involving a lot of aggression, unequal power dynamics, and a very specific depiction of femininity that’s mostly designed to be good-looking to a straight guy.\u00a0 Moreover, these videos focus heavily on penetration, which research shows some four in five women can’t reach orgasm from by itself.<\/p>\n

But with lesbian porn, there’s a lot more diversity of sexual acts and relationships displayed.<\/p>\n

\"Anikka<\/a><\/p>\n

It’s really just that simple: In sex scenes involving only women, the women actually get off.\u00a0 Women are depicted as being catered to, pleasured, and satisfied by partners who are their equals.\u00a0 So is it any surprise that plenty of women are hooked?<\/p>\n

How Do Two Women Have Sex<\/h2>\n

Before we talk about lesbian sex, let\u2019s talk about what the phrase means.<\/p>\n

Usually, people use the term \u201clesbian sex\u201d to mean sex between two women.\u00a0 If that\u2019s the case, remember that those women might not identify as lesbian.<\/p>\n

For example, they could identify as bisexual, pansexual, queer, or even heterosexual.\u00a0 Sex between women isn\u2019t limited to lesbians. Remember, also, that \u201clesbian sex\u201d isn\u2019t limited to cisgender couples.\u00a0 It also includes other people who have vaginas, people with penises, and people with intersex genitalia.<\/p>\n

\"Anikka<\/a><\/p>\n

Heterosexual couples, for example, may have oral, manual, or penetrative sex.\u00a0 It all depends on the couple and what they like to do.\u00a0 Similarly, lesbian sex \u2014 or sex between women, whether cis or trans \u2014 can include whatever kind of sex you\u2019d like to try.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t believe everything you\u2019ve heard<\/h2>\n

There are lots of myths out there about lesbian sex.\u00a0 Here are a few:<\/p>\n

Someone has to be \u201cthe man\u201d in the scenario. Some people believe that one partner does all the penetration while the other does all the receiving. This is the dynamic for some couples, but not all \u2014 and remember, penetrating doesn\u2019t make you a \u201cman.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Riley<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier because you\u2019re both women. Remember that just because you\u2019re both women doesn\u2019t mean you have the same genitals \u2014 for example, one person might be a cis woman with a vagina, while the other might be a trans woman with a penis.\u00a0 Even if you do have the same genitals, everybody is different. What one partner finds pleasurable, another partner might find boring.<\/p>\n

You have to use a strap-on.\u00a0 Strap-ons are sex toys that are often penis-like in shape.\u00a0 They attach to one partner\u2019s pelvis using a harness or underwear-like attachment.\u00a0 They can be used to penetrate the vagina or anus.\u00a0 While these can be enjoyable, they\u2019re not a must-have.\u00a0 Whether you use one is up to you.<\/p>\n

You have to scissor. Scissoring is when two people with vaginas open their legs and rub their vulvas together.\u00a0 While some people enjoy this, it\u2019s a huge myth that all lesbians do this.\u00a0 Many people find it impractical and unpleasurable.<\/p>\n

Orgasm is the end goal.\u00a0 Most people think that sex ends when one or both partners orgasm.\u00a0 This doesn\u2019t have to be the case.\u00a0 Sex can be pleasurable without orgasming, and it\u2019s totally fine to stop having sex without one or both of you orgasming.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to worry about STIs or pregnancy.\u00a0 It\u2019s possible to get pregnant if one partner has a penis and another has a vagina.\u00a0 It\u2019s also possible to spread STIs from one person to another, no matter what their genitals are.<\/p>\n

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Okay, not that we’ve learned a lot about lesbian sex, how about we go to the ‘how do they’.\u00a0 But I’m not going to tell you exactly how for the fact that I am a man.\u00a0 A straight one.\u00a0 What we’re going to be doing is to empathize.\u00a0 Yup, imagine yourself being a woman (oh, you’re wife and girlfriend will totally appreciate what you’re going to learn here).\u00a0 I mean, what better way to understand how they make love to each other, right?\u00a0 So what we’re going to be doing is to set your mind on the preparation and the ‘how to’.<\/p>\n

Okay, ready?\u00a0 Imagine yourself a hot woman about to make love to another hot woman (okay, you don’t have to be both hot.\u00a0 You just can be passionate).\u00a0 So let’s go…<\/p>\n

First thing’s first…<\/p>\n

1.\u00a0 Get familiar with your own anatom<\/strong>y<\/p>\n

Masturbating can help you relax and figure out what feels good to you.<\/p>\n

You may find that touching yourself in certain places and with certain motions feels pleasurable.\u00a0 This can help you tell your partner what you enjoy.<\/p>\n

\"Riley<\/a><\/p>\n

Masturbating will also help you navigate their anatomy better.\u00a0 It may also give you a good idea of what they might enjoy.<\/p>\n

That said, remember that everyone is different.\u00a0 What might be pleasurable for one person might not be pleasurable for the next.<\/p>\n

2.\u00a0 Communication is the key<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be prepared to communicate with your partner. Asking for consent is crucial. Even if your partner has already said that they want to have sex, it\u2019s important to check in before the time comes.<\/p>\n

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\"Riley<\/a>Remember that they have the right to withdraw consent during sex, as do you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re nervous, talk to your partner about it. Share hat you haven\u2019t done certain sexual activities. Ask them what they enjoy doing or what they\u2019d like to try, or share ideas of your own. Oh, and you should never make assumptions about what your partner does or doesn\u2019t want.<\/p>\n

Always check in with them and ask what they\u2019d like before taking it to the next level.<\/p>\n

3.\u00a0 What to expect from breast and nipple play<\/strong><\/p>\n

Remember that some people have sensitive nipples, so be gentle and ask your partner how much pressure they\u2019d like you to apply.<\/p>\n