{"id":4021,"date":"2021-06-01T12:00:20","date_gmt":"2021-06-01T19:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/?p=4021"},"modified":"2021-05-13T15:59:24","modified_gmt":"2021-05-13T22:59:24","slug":"anal-orgasm-yes-it-does-exist-so-try-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/babesrater.com\/articles\/anal-orgasm-yes-it-does-exist-so-try-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Anal Orgasm: Yes, It Does Exist So Try It!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Remember our backdoor article<\/a>?\u00a0 Well, to some of you who have tried it, congratulations.\u00a0 And to those who haven’t, you should let your woman read this one.\u00a0 Why, because they might achieve more than just their ordinary orgasms.\u00a0 Yup, you see, a study shows that anal orgasm is real. And many (and I’m sure a good number of you) have already had their partners experienced it.<\/p>\n

\"Gloria<\/a><\/p>\n

So have about a good read and a good material to convince your girlfriend to try out some backdoor fun, eh?<\/p>\n

What an anal orgasm is, exactly<\/h2>\n

Put simply, an anal orgasm is the result of sexual stimulation of the nerves in and around the anus. According to Megwyn White, director of education at Satisfyer, \u201cThe anus is packed with nerves, especially the incredibly erogenous pudendal nerve\u2014which connects to the clitoris.”<\/em><\/p>\n

The pudendal nerve carries sensation to and from your perineum, reaching your vagina, vulva, and anus, too.<\/p>\n

\"Gloria<\/a><\/p>\n

What does this kind of orgasm feel like? Well, some women describe it as being similar to a clitoral orgasm\u2014a pulse of pleasurable contractions, but this time around the anal sphincter. Others may feel more of a “spreading wave”<\/em> of pleasure.<\/p>\n

How to get started<\/h2>\n

Sex on the fly is fun, but when it comes to anal play, a little prep can help make the experience better for the receiver and the giver.<\/p>\n

Some women may hit this high note during penetrative anal sex with their partner’s penis, while others get there via lighter touching or using toys.\u00a0 Like any other kind of orgasm, there’s no “right” way to do it, and every woman has her own technique depending on what feels good for her body and her own comfort level.\u00a0 Like any kind of sex session, you’ll want to get things going with ample amounts of foreplay, such as touching, kissing, and vaginal and clitoral stimulation.<\/p>\n

\"Gloria<\/a><\/p>\n

Being relaxed and aroused is key, especially if this is your first foray into butt play.\u00a0 Once your partner is relaxed and ready, begin with a tongue or finger to gently stimulate the area of the anus.<\/p>\n

Here are some ideas and other tips to get you started:<\/p>\n

Indulge in something erotic. <\/strong>The more turned on you are, the easier and more enjoyable butt play will be.<\/p>\n

Watch porn,<\/strong> listen to an erotic story, or just close your eyes and fantasize.<\/p>\n

Take a hot bath.<\/strong> A hot bath before anal play will help loosen tight muscles and increase blood flow to all your bits. Use bath time to give your erogenous zones a good rub-a-dub and show your anus some love while you wash up.<\/p>\n

Practice with a butt plug.<\/strong> Sex toys can help you get a feel for anal play before experimenting with your partner.\u00a0 Take things slow and enjoy the feeling of the toy teasing your butt before inserting it.<\/p>\n

Stock up on lube.<\/strong> There\u2019s no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal.\u00a0 It isn\u2019t just about the delightful slip and slide, but also an important part of anal sex safety.<\/p>\n

As you get more into it, your anal area may start feeling super-pleasurable sensations, even a buildup of pressure that segues into contraction-like waves.\u00a0 If what you experience isn’t quite the release you usually feel when you orgasm, it should still feel good.<\/p>\n

If you’re experiencing amazing sensations but you’re not quite reaching climax but you keep trying, take a deep breath\u2014and take the idea of having an orgasm off the table.\u00a0 \u201cPressure, stress, and anxiety are the biggest blockers of orgasm.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Now guys, also remember that as the giver, you need to bring your A-game.\u00a0 A little prep can help you help them have that anal orgasm:<\/p>\n

Groom those hands.<\/strong> Trim and file your nails to prevent tearing delicate skin. Short nails also mean less space for dirt and bacteria to hide. While we\u2019re on the subject of bacteria, don\u2019t forget to wash your hands thoroughly before going in. You could also wear latex gloves, and for extra comfort insert some cotton balls.<\/p>\n

Use a condom.<\/strong> Condoms can be used on a butt toy and fingers, as well as a penis. If you want to use your tongue, a condom can also be cut open and used as an alternative to a dental dam. This isn\u2019t just to prevent STIs, but also to nip the ick factor in the bud if you or your partner is nervous.<\/p>\n

Get in the mood. Foreplay can help get you both ready for what\u2019s to come and make entry into that special spot easier. Touching, kissing, and licking the buttocks and the area around the anus is a good way to get the party started.<\/p>\n

Again, Lube is a MUST.<\/strong> The anus doesn\u2019t self-lubricate. It just doesn\u2019t \u2014 at least not in the same way as a vagina.<\/p>\n

Your anus is located at the end of your rectum, which is part of your digestive tract.\u00a0 The mucus membrane that lines the rectum contains glands that produce mucus to protect your digestive tract.<\/p>\n

Anal mucus is sometimes secreted when you have a bowel movement or during anal stimulation, but the amount of mucus secreted \u2014 if any \u2014 isn\u2019t enough to help penetration.<\/p>\n

Techniques to try<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ll probably have to play with different techniques to find what works, but playing is half the fun anyway.<\/p>\n

\"Gloria<\/a><\/p>\n

Here are some moves to try with whether you\u2019re using your tongue, fingers, penis, toys, or a combo of them all.<\/p>\n

With your tongue<\/strong><\/p>\n

Your tongue may not be able to directly stimulate the P-spot or A-spot, but it sure can work wonders on the rest of the perianal area and many other erogenous zones.<\/p>\n

Use the tip of your tongue to tease the cheeks before working your way between them.\u00a0 Swirl your tongue around the anus for a moment and then push the tip into the opening, darting it in and out.<\/p>\n

With your fingers<\/strong><\/p>\n