Social distancing, lockdown, man… What can one do this cold season? What else? Sex… B ut you’re tire of doing that in your room and you’re scared to go to a resort or a hotel or wherever you like… We’ll we got a solution for you. You can still get out of that crib of yours and have steamy sex with your partner. Just, yeah, don’t get our of the car. Oh, you did that already. Yeah, well good for you. But have you tried these positions? I mean, all of them? In different places like let’s say, the lake or the mountains or a mountain lake? Yeah, you should try those places and not just your grocery parking lot. It’s good. Just don’t get caught as it will be very, very embarrassing. But you already know that, don’t you…
Now, before we get to the positions, how about some tips on safety and creativity…
1. Talk about your expectations
As with any sexual experience, communicating with your partner beforehand is key. You definitely want to run by your idea to hop on them in the car before doing so and discuss what you want that experience to look like.
If you don’t and they’re not quite as adventurous as you, you may feel a bit rejected when they ask you to buckle back up.
2. Wear comfortable, easily removable clothing
A skirt or dress instead of jeans and a tank for your woman. You see, you want an outfit that you can easily lift so you can remove undergarments quickly. You also want to be able to throw said outfit back on in a jiffy, in case of sudden visitors.
3. Park in an isolated but safe area
This should go without saying, but you definitely want to park your car somewhere where you’re:
- a) unlikely to violate public-sex laws
- b) out of plain sight from passersby
- c) not totally remote, in case of an emergency
Some good spots: an almost-empty parking lot, an abandoned nighttime tailgate lot when everyone has headed to the game or concert, or near a campsite.
4. Add ambient lighting
Assuming you’re not pulling over for a car romp in broad daylight (if you are, you animal!), bring a flashlight — or use the built-in light on your phone — to illuminate your tight space a bit, suggests Brito. Not only does this add ‘mood lighting’. You’ll also help prevent the annoying elbow whack on the car door.
If you prefer the illicit feeling of being in total darkness, go for it. Just be mindful of vulnerable body parts as you move around.
5. Take advantage of a sunroof
On that whole “stay cool” note: If you have a sunroof, don’t forget to use it! “Not only does this allow ample airflow,” says Babeland co-founder Claire Cavanah, an open roof also creates a bit more vertical space for seated sex positions (more on those in a sec). Just do everyone a favor and keep your voices/groans to a neighborly level.
6. Stay cool / Stay warm
While the sweatiness of their car-sex moment will go on as one of the hottest sex scenes in movie history, you can have insanely intense intercourse without getting that gross.
Turn on the AC or heater (but keep the emergency brake on, ALWAYS), or stick to cooler evenings so you can drive around with the windows down for a few before parking.
7. Experiment in different spots
You’ve probably tried reclining the driver or passenger seat, then climbing onto your partner or vice versa. So hop into the backseat together, where you’ll have ~a bit~ more space to get frisky. Either way, don’t fight the close quarters — embrace them as a way to feel physically and emotionally closer to your person.
Oh, and if they have a giant trunk or tailgate? By all means, Have. At. It.
And now, ladies and gents, the positions…
1. The Backseat Spoon
How you do it:
You can put one seat all the way down and do it on one chair or go to the back and do the side spoon position.
Why it’s awesome:
Because not only is it comfy, it gets the job done and is more romantic than the rough doggie. This position also makes it easier for both partners to relax and get off, without distraction or performance anxiety.
2. The Seated Rear Entry aka The Reverse Cowgirl (or Cargirl for this one)
How you do it:
Have your partner sit on the driver or passenger seat (or backseat, if you want), and straddle them facing away. Brace the window or glove compartment for stability as you grind.
Why it’s awesome:
The woman controls penetration and rhythm. There is heightened G-spot stimulation with rear entry, and she or he has access to the clitoris for additional play. This position is really great for hitting the G-spot.
3. Backseat Driver
How you do it:
Ladies, lead with this one. Flip the front passenger seat forward and push it as close as possible toward the dash. You can then recline on the passenger-side backseat, with his legs resting on either side of the front passenger headrest. Climb on top of him facing away from him and, depending on her height and the kind of car, can either kneel or bend her legs so her feet are planted outside his hips.
Why it’s awesome:
It’s a space-efficient move that doesn’t compromise on pleasure no matter what size the car. Add an outing to the wild side by using the safety belts to strap arms and restrict movements.
4. Backseat Doggy
How you do It:
Have your woman climb into the backseat, then get her on all fours. Kneel behind her and enter, draping your upper body over hers
Why it’s awesome:
Straight-up missionary can be tough to do in the car since chances are, neither of you will be able to extend your legs fully. Doggy-style, on the other hand, is perfect. With deep penetration and G-spot stimulation, you get to take her from behind while bending your torso over hers, and you both get easy access to the clitoris.
5. The Om with a Twist
How you do it:
This is a classical tantric sex position that translates well to sex in the front seat. In Yab Yum, the partners sit face to face with one astride the other. In the classical version, the man sits in the full lotus posture, with the woman on his lap, her legs wrapped around him. Of course, this isn’t very practical in a car, but you can sit in the passenger seat, and she can straddle you.
Why it’s awesome:
If you’re parked in an area where you won’t be disturbed, this also allows for alternating between active, movement-based sex and a slow, meditative style of lovemaking. It allows you to sit in stillness and experience the quiet beauty of uniting your body with that of your beloved. If the sexual energy begins to diminish, you can pulse your PC muscles to reignite it. Exchanging pulses, which is sometimes known as ‘the secret language,’ can be a particularly sensual way to do this, they say.
This is one of the most intimate sex positions because your bodies are close together, aligned and face-to-face, which makes it great for eye-gazing. It allows your hands to be free to caress each other or to stimulate other erogenous zones. It’s also great for building harmony and connection since your breathing and emotional states will sync up quite rapidly.
Pro tip: Set the pace yourself. This makes being penetrated an active rather than a passive or receptive role and often results in a more pleasurable orgasmic experience.
6. Trunk Space
How you do it:
Here it is — the potential for back-door, in-the-car action we’ve all been waiting for. As complicated and acrobatic as it may seem, it’s absolutely possible to do it doggy style or even give anal a go in your vehicle. To try the “Trunk Space” move, you need to put one chair down and have her lean over it toward the back and then get on top of her.
Why it’s awesome:
Doggy style is a highly arousing position for both genders, and things can get extra freaky when you try it outside the four walls of your home. For the ladies, there’s more opportunity for touch — breasts, nipples, clitoris.
7. The Classic Cargirl (Cowgirl)
How you do it:
Just sit and have her climb on top of you, facing you. You can recline as far back as you both desire.
Why it’s awesome:
Because it is easy. Plus your partner gets tons of clitoral stimulation thanks to the angle of your member.
8. Tight Traffic
How you do it:
Get in the backseat and have your lie on her back with her bent knees while you get on top. You then inserts your penis through the tight opening created by her semi-closed legs, increasing the intensity of penetration.
Why it’s awesome:
In this position, she gets to lie down with bent legs (this is good if she’s tired) while you do the work sits on top of you.
9. The Seashell
How you do it:
In the backseat, have her lie on her back with her legs raised all the way up and her ankles as close to your shoulders/head as possible. Then enters from a missionary position.
Why it’s awesome:
Deep penetration. Rubbing your pubic bone against her clit, directly stimulating the G-spot with the head of your penis. That’s it.
10. Scoop, Scoop
How you do it:
Go to the backseat, then lie down and turn onto your sides to face each other. Scooch toward each other and then enter.
Why it’s awesome:
This lying-down position is great for backseats since your bodies are basically intertwined with each other and your legs are bent, unlike in missionary. The bonus of lying down? No chance of banging your head on the car ceiling.
11. The Spider
How you do it:
Both of you sit on the backseat with legs toward each other, arms back to support yourselves. Now move together. Her hips will be between your spread legs, her knees bent, and feet outside of your hips and flat on the seat. Now, just rock back and forth. Kind of like scissoring but with your member inside her.
Why it’s awesome:
The Spider is a must if you want to make things a little more hardcore. The position creates intense penetration while letting you and your partner get a full look at each other’s bodies — something that most car-sex positions can’t do.
Bonus:
Road Head
How you do it:
Now this one is dangerous if you are moving. But that’s where the thrill is. You can also do this when you are parked but it’s not as awesome as, you know…
You see, sex is not just genital penetration. If you want to try something sexy in motion, the safer bet appears to be watching the partner stimulate themselves. Getting sucked while driving also is a very popular car activity that does not appear to result in many injuries from the position; however, there is enough increase in erratic driving with oral sex for a male driver that this is probably best simulated with the engine running after pulling over.
I really do not recommend this. But if you’re a hard-head, then go. Just don’t go over 20.
Why it’s awesome:
Variety is the spice of life, and on-the-road oral can make your sex life that much more interesting, especially when you’re creative with your positioning.
After Drive Thru
How you do it:
Ladies, let him do repay you from doing the road head. Just gently sit on your partner’s face in an angle where your clitoris rests on their lips. You can hold on to the seat for support. By using the seat for balance, you can grind all over your partner’s mouth and move your hips every which way.
Why it’s awesome:
If you’re enjoying the backseat, stay there! This position takes face-sitting to a whole new level.
Belt Bondage
How you do it:
Lie on your back across the backseat, and she ties your hands above your head using the seat belt. She climbs on top and grinds to her heart’s content.
Why it’s awesome:
This position works for women who know how to take what they want with no apologies. Being on top allows her to rub her clit against his pelvic bone or reach down with her fingers for some extra stimulation.
So there you have it, folks. Just use your imagination. Remember to always practice road safety. Enjoy!