There are a lot of misconceptions out there about the practice of ‘squirting’, sometimes known as the ‘female orgasm’. It’s a gush of fluid that happens during sex and resembles pee to the point that many people assume that it is, simply, just that.
The fact is that the fluid that comes out when squirting is a little different from pee, and is not accidental urination but linked to how aroused the girl is. Because it’s visual proof of a woman cumming, men – visual creatures that they are – are huge fans of it and take it as proof that they’re doing a good job.
Unfortunately, not every woman squirts. Those who can have a distinct advantage in the cam industry on sites like PDCams because it’s a great way to show men that they’re genuinely getting you off. The question, then, becomes: can you learn to squirt? Can you do it on demand? And if you can’t, is it possible to do so?
Join me as I explain the wonderful and wacky world of squirting.
Is Squirting the Same Thing as the Female Orgasm?
In a nutshell: no. Pretty much all women are capable of orgasm (though some may have trouble doing so through penetrative sex alone), and for most women, there is no visible sign that she’s cumming beyond how she reacts. And as we all know, that can be faked, so there’s no real way of knowing if it’s the real deal or not.
Squirting, on the other hand, is a visible sign of arousal and pretty much happens only when a woman is really getting off on sex – but it doesn’t necessarily happen at the same time as an orgasm.
That said, squirting is a surefire sign that a woman is enjoying herself, so it’s generally considered a good thing.
Can you Make yourself Squirt?
If you’re involved in the cam sex industry (as I am) but you’re not a natural squirter, you’re probably wondering if it’s possible to learn this power. It’s obviously a massive boost to a visual medium like camming, as it makes guys feel like they’re getting you off – something that guys really like.
It is, fortunately, possible to teach yourself to squirt. It’s not something that can be done overnight, but it is a learnable skill. Good news for cam girls everywhere; I’m sure you’ll agree. The question is: how do you teach yourself to squirt?
Drink Plenty of Water
Though squirting isn’t the same as peeing, the fact is that it’s definitely a related fluid – and to produce fluid; you need fluid.
To make sure that it’s not pee-pee, however, make sure you go to the bathroom before you start. You don’t want to just unleash a torrent of urine all over your expensive bedsheets.
Squirting tends to happen more from G-spot – rather than clitoral – stimulation, so get a sex toy and go to work. When you feel yourself about to cum, ease off and wait before starting again. This practice is (I’m sure you know) called ‘edging’, and it’s crucial when training yourself to squirt.
After a couple of times edging, let yourself cum. If all goes well, you’ll squirt all over the place.
Make Sure you’re Relaxed
If there’s one thing that’s antithetical to orgasming, it’s being tense or stressed. If you’re trying too hard to squirt because you feel like you need to, then you’re not going to cum or squirt. You’ve gotta relax.
This sounds like an impossibility – you can’t make yourself relax – and this is why it’s important to get in plenty of practice by yourself before you start trying it on camera or with anyone else. You stand a much better chance of pulling it off with consistent and gentle practice.
Use a Sex Toy
Squirting requires G-spot stimulation, but the G-spot is, frankly, a pain in the ass to get to with your fingers. You may find your finger and wrist tiring well before you’re ready to cum.
In order to avoid this, grab a good sex toy and use that to stimulate your G-spot. There are plenty of vibrators out there designed expressly for G-spot stimulation (or even simultaneous G-spot/clitoris stimulation), so you shouldn’t have too much trouble finding one that will get you to Squirt Central in no time at all.
Can you Squirt on Demand without a Sex Toy?
So you’ve mastered the art of squirting with a sex toy! Congratulations. But the fact is that some viewers will want you to do stuff other than work your G-spot with a sex toy. In these instances, it’s pretty useful to be still able to squirt on demand.
How else, then, can you ensure that you’re squirting on camera?
Straddle a Sex Saddle and Lean Back
If you’re using a sex saddle, teaching yourself to squirt is not difficult. The trick is to lean back while riding the saddle and ensure you have a dildo extension fitted that will hit your G-spot. The pressure of your leaning back, combined with the dildo, will have you squirting all over that saddle.
Do Doggy Style with a Fuck Machine
Doggy style is a great way of hitting the G-spot. In the absence of a physical partner there with a dick or strap-on, cam girls can make use of fuck machines. These do a great job of hitting the G-spot; you can set their speed and intensity to whatever does it for you. Soon enough, you’ll find yourself squirting as reliably as Old Faithful.
Conclusion
Squirting is not going to come to you overnight, but with a little bit of patience (and a lot of fluids), you can ensure that you’re good to go and ready to explode like an unsecured firehose. Just remember that it’s all about hitting the G-spot. If you can find various ways of doing that, you will give your live sex cams viewers consistently amazing performances that will have you wetter than an otter’s nose.