Boring sex is so last year. Wild and hot sex? That is definitely in fashion.
So, if you’re ready to get with the times, and get a little weird, then you’ve found the right article, friends!
From Skype sex cam chats to getting it on in the outdoors – you and your lover are bound to find something that entices you.
Here are 10 unconventional ideas for spicing up your sex lives that you’ll want to try asap:
1. Roleplaying
Roleplaying can be fun to add a little life and variety to your sexy time. If you’re not sure where to start, why not try something classic like nurse and patient or boss and secretary? You can also get creative and come up with your own unique scenarios.
2. Skype sex cam dates
Skype sex cam are becoming more popular, and not just for the single guys out there. Even couples can have fun with virtual Sky cam dates. Especially those couples that are curious about threesomes. A Skype sex cam chat is the perfect first step.
3. Toys and games
Sex toys can help add an extra bit of spice to your sex life and help you explore new ways to get each other off. Try out using dildos, vibrators, penis rings, or anal beads.
For games, you can play strip poker, naughty twister, or any other game you want! Simply add some extra rules that involve sexual acts.
4. Giphyting
Giphyting is a new trend that is said to spice up your sex life. It involves sending each other GIFs (short, animated images) that are related to sexual acts or fantasies.
This is a fun way to get each other turned on and thinking about sex without having to actually do anything. Plus, it can be a great way to get some new ideas for things to try in the bedroom!
5. Tantric breathing
Ever heard of this one? Tantric breathing is a type of breathwork that can move sexual energy throughout the body and can be used to increase arousal, stamina, and overall pleasure.
To try tantric breathing, start by finding a comfortable position. You can sit or lie down, whatever feels best for you. Once you’re comfortable, begin to focus on your breath. Slowly inhale through your nose, filling your lungs completely. Then exhale slowly through your mouth. As you breathe, concentrate on the sensation of your breath moving in and out of your body.
6. Sensual massages
A sensual massage from your partner will add an extra element of relaxation and intimacy and also help increase arousal and sexual pleasure. Start slow and gradually build up the intensity. And don’t forget the body oil or lotion.
7. Go to a hotel
If you and your partner are looking for some excitement in the bedroom, why not book a hotel, even if it’s just for a night or two? A setting that’s not your own space can make all the difference when it comes to getting in the mood.
8. Erotic photography
Get a little bit creative and a lot a bit naughty. Here are some tips for getting started with erotic photography:
- Set the mood. Create an atmosphere conducive to sexy fun by dimming the lights, lighting candles, or playing music that gets you and your sex pal in the mood.
- Be creative. Be creative with your poses, props, and locations. The sky is the limit! Get creative and have fun creating images that turn on and put you in the mood.
9. Get naughty in nature
Something about getting naughty in nature makes sex even more exciting. Maybe it’s the risk of getting caught or the feeling of being one with nature. Whatever the reason, if you’re looking to spice up your sex life, then getting it on in the great outdoors is definitely worth a try.
10. Bondage
Bondage is a popular kink that is definitely worth trying. Not just dominatrix folks. It can add an extra layer of excitement and anticipation to sex. You can use handcuffs, rope, or even scarves or ties to restrain your partner. If you want to take things a step further, blindfolds and floggers can also be fun additions.
Ready to get naughty and try one of these ideas?
So, what will it be? A wild night in a hotel? Some fantasy roleplaying? A threesome with a Skype sex cam model? Or a game of strip poker? Have fun out there.